The only advice I could extend out after 5 years of marriage if your considering tying the knot is…….DON’T DO IT
DON’T DO IT if you’re weak
DON’T DO IT if you’re not up for a challenge until death do you part
DON’T DO IT if you give up too easy
DON’T DO IT if you don’t like bumpy and treacherous rides
DON’T DO IT if you like certainty and predictability
A lot of idiots get married and haphazardly think there is going to be a happy existence without putting in any work. Life is challenging enough and if you aren’t good at communication and working as a team then you’re destined to fail.
I happen to be a professional persistent pain in the ass that never settles for less or accepts no for an answer. I have never been known to quit at anything in life. I’m an instrument of peace, but I have had to fight for everything that I have in life. I may be 5 foot nothing, but I have never feared anyone, anything or situation. I have shed blood, been bruised and had few guns literally pointed at my chest. What hasn’t killed me made me stronger. I’m sharing this to impress upon you that I’m the MOFO you want in your corner when the sh*t goes down (my true friends know this and you know who you are).
In my dating career I had to go through my share of heartache and pain to get to the one that is willing to walk through life which seems like war at times. Rachel Olivera is my ride or die who always has my back no matter what. She has more balls than most guys I know who shouldn’t be categorized as men in this first place. Rachel isn’t talk…..she is all action. She is my bride, the mother of the most sacred gift in my life and my ultimate partner in crime.
So…..Before you get hitched and enter into a sacred contract ask yourself if your partner will work together with you through the ugliest of circumstances,loves you unconditionally with all of your imperfections and most importantly accepts your friends and family as if they were their own. If you can honestly answer yes then you are off to a good start. Most of the time we see the beginning of the end right from the start, but choose to turn a blind eye.
I love you Rachel Olivera, because you not only will stand through and unexpected performance where flaming torches and knives are being thrown around us (Look at the photo closely), but you enhance my existence. Together we will continue to walk this path together, fashion and live in the world that we design together until we move on to the another dimension.
LOVE is the ultimate force in this universe and I’m grateful that I found it with you!